Cleaning the Closet

Once in a while I get lost

Once in a while I feel down

Once in a while I feel overwhelmed

Once in a while I clean a closet


Cleaning the closet…a beginning and an end.

A sigh of relief over a job well-done.

Pull everything out

Assess it

What goes back in

What gets thrown away

Be discriminating

You don’t have to keep everything

Some things are a surprise

Some things are just nasty

And you wonder why you kept them in the first place


Cleaning the closet, like cleaning the cobwebs from your mind

Is good for the soul

It has a beginning

And an end

And you can deal with all the crap in the process

What do you keep?

How do you let it go?

Can you really give that up?


Yes, I can

When I get lost, I clean a closet

When I feel down, I clean a closet

When I feel overwhelmed, I clean a closet

When I clean a closet I feel better.


My mind is clear

My heart is free

My thoughts are organized

I’ve gotten rid of the crap

That goes along with living

That gets in the way of living

To make room for life

And all it has to offer



When I feel down, I clean a closet.

Watery Wednesday: Gone Fishing?

One photo is worth a thousand words...

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The Shore is Waiting

Does it get any better than this?

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Watery Wednesday: OCNJ We're going on VACATION!

It's been a long, rainy summer here in Connecticut. And it's been a harder year than last. I am looking forward to taking a deep breath of ocean air on Friday afternoon. Ocean City, New Jersey has been a favorite vacation spot of ours for over 10 years now and if I can just see the ocean once a year, I am refreshed.
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Watery Wednesday: Above the Falls

Once you climb the trails to the top of Kent Falls, the scene changes. There is peace and quiet, the trails widen. The water is placid and lazy. Peace of mind. Lovely.

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Skywatch Friday: OCNJ Kites!

We go on vacation in a little less than a month now. I can't wait! I am looking forward to taking some excellent shots of the kites this year. There are always about a zillion of them up in the sky. It's really cool when you see 5 or more kites on one line and see the sky loaded up with them.

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Watery Wednesday: Kent Falls babbling brook

at the base of the falls are picnic tables, charcoal grills and this babbling brook. It makes for a restful afternoon. For more great Watery Wednesday pics, please visit http://waterywednesday.blogspot.com

Buddy Friday: Living on Your Own in College

My oldest daughter just completed her second year of college. She moved out of the dorms and into an apartment so she could intern over the summer. She was very excited at the prospect and grateful that she has a job waitressing to cover her expenses. We thought the opportunity would be good for her both for the experience of interning as well as the experience of "living on her own." We figured it would give her a good idea of whether or not she was ready for an apartment setting for the school year.

There are a lot of things a college kid doesn't know (even though they're convinced they know everything). How to set up a budget, how to balance a checking account, when is rent due, how does a wire work. All this was new to her. She asked questions, got answers, but felt like she should have been imparted with this knowledge somewhere along her educational journey.

I told her I would look for some sort of reference for her. I didn't know if it would be a beginning budget or bookkeeping book, i really didn't know what I would find when I went to the bookstore. The answer was "not much". It is funny, there is a huge push for college shopping, outfit your dorm room with the coolest, latest, greatest stuff. $pend money, money, money (after you've paid the tuition$$ mind you). But there is no reference for a college student to spend their money WISELY.

I plowed through the section, looked through books and the best I could do was a woman's guide to living independently. I did buy a copy as it did have a chapter on how to budget your money as well as how to save, how to invest. A grow into guide if nothing else. I may find myself writing a book.

Caitlin has decided to live off-campus this year, has found a rent and a roommate. I'm very proud of her. I'm also glad she has the opportunity to learn how to live on her own with the safety net of college and mom and dad before it's just her, an apartment and work.

I would love to know: What is your best tip for a college student living on her own for the first time?

Watery Wednesday: Kent Falls After the Rain

It has been very wet and rainy in Connecticut for the better part of the last six weeks. The Fourth of July was the first sunny warm day in a very long time. We visited Kent Falls on Sunday along with thousands of our closest friends! It was a beautiful day, the trails were a lush green and the falls were thundering loud. Even the smallest inlets were full of water. It was a beautiful day. For more great Watery Wednesday posts, please visit http://waterywednesday.blogspot.com.

One Less

Our Community lost a piece of its future tonight. In one earth-shattering moment, one of our children was taken away from us forever. What was supposed to be a day of celebration, the completion of another school year in sleepy New Fairfield turned tragic at a party. No, alcohol wasn't involved, no there was no mean-spirited hazing, yes the parents were in attendance. But in one swift moment our lives were changed forever.

We're not supposed to lose our children. They are to out-live their parents, out-shine them in their abilities. They are supposed to make the world a better place. Catherine Burke will never have that chance. She should be lazing the summer away having her mother tell her to get up each morning. Now her mother walks past her empty room. One less at the table, one less in the car. One less.

Instead of gathering for the next party, our community gathers for a funeral. Our hearts have been changed tonight. Our sympathies go out to the Burke family. The loss of one child diminishes us all.